=/ I say be your own man! Find something you like? Then go for it. If people don't support you, all it is a hurdle for you to leap over. I know things are easier said than done, and there's a lot I don't know, but put simply we have things in life that can make it difficult, or discourage us. Take for example me, college, and my dream. My ultimate dream in life is to own a house of my own, with a wife and kids. I was born in a not-so-wealthy family where almost nobody went to college. I would really like to go, but my mother doesn't help me, and my grandmother who remotely knows anything about it can barely leave the house. And because of today's economy, raising money is near impossible, especially if my job's planning on laying me off in about 2 months. But the only thing I can do is to try to stand up and take it like a man. Find another job. Speak with schools for help, even though I don't like to. Talk with people even though I'm socially poor. Lay out my own path.
Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you, plans to give you hope and a future."
New hobby, new hobby... Well, what kind of things would you be interested in?