"i just wanted to ask if you've ever taken another person's pencil;"
I have borrowed pencils before, and I have always given them back.
"or if you've ever taken food so a family member/friend couldn't have any;"
I live in a family of 2, we've never had a problem of running out of food so I've never had to.
"or if you have any intention of paying pack your parents for all of the electricity you use running your wii/computer;"
That's called a gift from my mom to me. The same way a parent giving a baby food is a gift.
"or if you ever video taped someone without their consent;"
I have not. When someone asks me not to, I respect their decision and I don't.
"or if you ever quoted a person without giving them credit."
Whenever I quote something someone else has said, I always type it in quotes (like when I used to quote Stiltz back when he would always tell people "Do you think you're cool?" and tell them I got it from him), or I'll tell the person I'm talking to who came up with it.
Someone mentioned in the IC thread about killing a bug. Nearly everyone has, with or without meaning to, just as every has breathed in oxygen. If you really want to get that detailed about what is and isn't stealing, then you would also be saying everyone has stolen because they've breathed in oxygen that could have been someone else's. That has nothing to do with stealing a possession from another person.