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Its not about what the girl is thinking. Look at her actions. If she wavers now, she will always waver.i like how all of these people know exactly what this girl is thinking.
10mindreaderzr2cool
im 15,One word:
b******
haha, how old are you? and how long did you know this chick before you hooked up?
I already am ;3This forum's non-existent aptitude for innuendo :/
check my recent post, you'll see what I'm talking about.
Get perverted you guys, you'll earn a free salad and bread sticks if you do.
One of my best friends has this exact same situation minus the mental problems. I'd honestly ignore him. It might be hard but if he sees that you're not bothered by his actions (which he's probably doing just to annoy you anyways) he may stop.My brother is only causing grief and dismay in my family and my parents arent being assertive enough to do anything about it. He takes advantage of everything and there's nothing I can do about it without getting in trouble! Yet it he does anything to me he can get away with it because my parents don't want to deal with his screaming and crying. I just had to get a lock installed on my door because he keeps stealing stuff from my room.
Normally this seems like an elementary sibling rivalry, but it's not, I'm 16 and he is 14. He was also diagnosed with mental problems, but that is no excuse for the way he acts, he does stuff because he knows he can get away with it. What am I to do? I have already told my parents how I feel but they aren't doing crap about it.
Nah, its not one of the ignoring situations. I have already done that and he just moved on to other members of the family. What really grinds my gears is how he makes the rest of the family miserable and gets in no trouble.One of my best friends has this exact same situation minus the mental problems. I'd honestly ignore him. It might be hard but if he sees that you're not bothered by his actions (which he's probably doing just to annoy you anyways) he may stop.
Some people act out for attention, perhaps try forming a better relationship with him?
Kids like this just need to really be treated toughly. Your parents need to put their foot down and really get this guy back in shape! If talking to him calmly and asking him nicely to stop won't work then yes, your parents need to take control!! If they don't then you are right, he'll know he can get away with it and continue to do it because no one is stopping him! I suggest having a serious talk to your parents because not showing him proper... punishment? Or-- control? I guess is what I'm trying to say will be bad in the long-run because he'll think he can do all this stuff and not get in trouble. Pretty much he won't stop unless someone puts their best foot forward!My brother is only causing grief and dismay in my family and my parents arent being assertive enough to do anything about it. He takes advantage of everything and there's nothing I can do about it without getting in trouble! Yet it he does anything to me he can get away with it because my parents don't want to deal with his screaming and crying. I just had to get a lock installed on my door because he keeps stealing stuff from my room.
Normally this seems like an elementary sibling rivalry, but it's not, I'm 16 and he is 14. He was also diagnosed with mental problems, but that is no excuse for the way he acts, he does stuff because he knows he can get away with it. What am I to do? I have already told my parents how I feel but they aren't doing crap about it.
I don't exactly know his situation.. but sometimes parents really don't know what to do in certain situations. He's probably coming from hardcore experience with this kid.>_>
I'd ask what a sixteen year old knows about parenting, but I don't want to come off as being an *******.
Smooth Criminal
Are you certain nobody likes being around you? Perhaps they don't call you or try to hang out with you because they're not certain if you consider them your friends. I don't know about others, but I'm usually not one to call people to hang out because I don't want them to feel like they have to make up an excuse or feel like they have to say yes when they don't really feel like it. If everyone has the same mentality as I, we'd never hang out with each other. Perhaps you could try calling people instead of waiting for them to call you, and they might have a good time and want to hang out in the future, and would give you a call for a change.Some days I really feel unloved. Not that I'm unloved some days, it's just that some days I let myself feel it. It seems to me like everyone has their own group, their own spot in which they fit. I don't. Not even in my church. My church is great, don't get me wrong. But I've always been a person to be set on the outside. No one wants to talk to me. No one. No one sincerely likes being around me. In short, I have no friends. Sure, there are people who are 'friendly' with me, but I have no friends. A lot of people take offense to this when I say this, and I ask them when the last time was that they gave me a call or tried to hang out with me.
That's something I do a lot for other people, I always try to grow closer to others, to share myself with others. No one ever really wants to do that for me. No one really wants to get to know me. Not what I really think and feel. They're all too content with me just saying "I'm doing fine." People tell me to switch up the people I'm with--but that does nothing. I've had one real friend in my entire life, and he's too far gone for me to talk to him now.
People just might not now how to comfort someone who's going through a tough time. They might not want to talk to you about it because they're not sure how to help, and don't want to disappoint you. I'm not really sure, sorry.I've got God, and I try to keep that in perspective. I by no means am losing faith, it just hurts me when I love people so much, and they seem to hate me so much. You might think I'm exaggerating. "Surely they don't hate you," you'll say. If you think that, let me ask you a question: What do you call complete and total disregard for someone's physical, emotional, mental, social, and spiritual state? What do you call it when you tell someone you're going through a rough time and you need someone to talk to and they don't get back to you for days--and never really get back to you, it's just that after so long you have to try to get in touch with them a second time. These people might as well be strangers to me.
You'll never know unless you tell her how you feel. Who knows, she might have feelings for you, but is thinking the same thing you're thinking. Maybe she feels you don't like her in that way and is afraid to find out whether or not that's the case. Wishful thinking? Perhaps, but you'll really never know unless you talk to her about it.It kills me because I do really like one girl. I like her a lot. I don't think she'll ever feel the same way. Unfortunately, despite all her virtue and kindness, I'm not sure she even likes me, even on the most basic of levels. I love her a great deal as my sister in Christ, as someone I spend a good deal of time with, and I like her as something a bit more. But I can't help but think she is completely apathetic to me, just like everyone else.
Can't say I completely disagree or agree with you here. Certainly there are many people who just focus on themselves and their immediate friends and family, and couldn't care less about random people as long as they're doing okay. However, this isn't the case for everyone. There are people who genuinely care about others despite how little they may know them. This is most likely the minority though.The worst thing is, everyone who is completely apathetic includes you, the person reading this right now. You don't care just as much as they don't. Why should you? We're strangers, after all. The concept of loving someone just because they're human is gone from our society. We look out for us and ours--no one else. Sympathy and compassion are a fool's emotions. Instead we focus on getting our own cheap thrills before we die and kicking out anyone who stands in our way. As long as we can hold onto our money, our friends, our house, our job, our way of life--no other effort needs be expended. And if anything jeopardizes that, even helping someone else, it's viewed as the chief of all evils.
I think people ask how you're doing to be nice a lot of the time. It's pretty much common courtesy. Most people, no matter how they're actually feeling, give the response of "I'm doing fine," because it's what's expected, and they know the person asking doesn't really want to know how they're doing.Worse than that, there are some of you who half-heartedly offer up some comment such as "Oh, I'm sure someone loves you." That's the problem with the world today. We're convinced that everyone's loved, and so we disregard any statements like mine. No one stops and says "Regardless of the reality of things, I'll love you." No, instead we paste on our smiles and go about our day, pretending we've got someone who loves us, too. Because after all, "I'm not doing too well" is never an acceptable response.
Sorry I couldn't offer up better advice, I'm not too good with this sort of thing, but I understand what you're saying, and have, at points in time, felt the same way. I just didn't want to post what I was going to post without responding in some way to yours in case it got skipped over or something.We wear the mask that grins and lies,
It hides our cheeks and shades our eyes.
This debt we pay to human guile
With torn and bleeding hearts we smile,
And mouth with myriad subtleties.
Why should the world be over-wise,
In counting all our tears and sighs?
Nay, let them only see us while
We wear the mask.
We smile but O great Christ our cries
To Thee from tortured souls arise.
We sing but O the clay is vile,
Beneath the feet and long the mile.
But let the world dream otherwise,
We wear the mask.
Poem by Paul Lawrence Dunbar, We Wear the Mask
Neither have I.I've never once in my life actively looked for a girlfriend. Opportunities just arise. Go with the flow.
Rejection is overrated.Neither have I.
Mostly because I'm afraid of rejection.
Absolutely. The reason that most relationships fail is because they were looking for a relationship, and not the person that would suit them best. Hence why people experience a lot more heartbreak than they need, and often miss the person that would really fit them. Before I became a Christian I dated almost everything in sight. It was ridiculous. Since becoming a Christian I haven't dated any girl, it's been over four years, and I think I've finally found a girl I want to date with the hopes that it would mature into marriage. I've thought and prayed a lot about it, and no woman has moved my heart more than her. I'm seeing her tonight and am going to ask her to go with me to a semi-formal my church is holding for Halloween. We'd go on a real date beforehand and end going to the masquerade. Hopefully all works out. I know I'm planning months ahead, but I hope to make an official offer of my affections as of February. Until then I just want us to grow in our friendship and see where it grows. We're already good friends, but I'd really love to give it the opportunity to grow into something more. Again, we'll see.I've never once in my life actively looked for a girlfriend. Opportunities just arise. Go with the flow.
It's just the thread glitching out.Why does this thread say it has 168 pages but takes me back to 167 when i click on it?
I'm almost 17 and I weigh less 124, and I'm also near 5'9'. Nothing to worry about. Also, just start working out our something. You'll gain weight, and look good.Okay, I have something...
I feel like a may be too skinny -___-
I'm 16...
and I weight 126...
Sad face...
My girl always makes jokes about how skinny I am...
I know she's just playing with me...
But I feel like "I" need to get a little more meat on me...
I eat alot, like...
I mean, alot!
Chicken, Beef...
All that good stuff,
I work out...
And nothing seems to happen...
Any ideas?
I don't wanna get fat...
Just wanna get some meaton my bones :D
and another thing...
My girl is on vacation right now, So I won't see her til Sunday...
I decided to be a little romantic and get her flowers... White roses, white orchids (her favorite) and some blue filler flower thing... Dolphiniums or something...
Well, anyways... We've only been going out for like... 2 1/2 weeks...
But we really like each other...
REALLY REALLY like each other...
When I got the flowers, my dad got pissed at me and said...
"WHY DO YOU NEED TO GET HER FLOWERS! SHE'S JUST TRYING TO SEE WHAT SHE CAN GET FROM YOU!"
Like he's trying to make me look at the bad in her...
So...
Should I have gotten the flowers?
She never asked for em', I did this out of my own free will...
I'm going to hang out with her on the day she gets back as well, just cause I miss her so much...
But yeah, why is my dad being a downer, and should I have gotten the flowers?
Ladies? Help me! O_O
and guys as well, lol